Skip to main content

Self Harm...! Whether it will be useful...?

Post a Comment

The secret lives of domestic abuse victims



If you are a Teen ...

  • You could be a victim of abuse, or at risk if you are dating someone who
  •  You will be very jealous and/or spies on you.
  •  Others will not let you break off the relationship.
  • Others mayhurts you in any way, is violent, or brags about hurting other people.
  • Others puts you down or makes you feel bad.
  • They forces you to have sex or makes you afraid to say no to sex.
  • Abuses drugs or alcohol; pressures you to use drugs or alcohol.
  • They has a history of bad relationships and blames iton others. 
  • A victim often senses that the abuser is becoming edgy and more prone to lash out at trivial frustrations.
  •  The victim may learn to anticipate abuse and try to control it by being more nurturing and compliant or by simply staying out of the abuser’s way. This phase is marked by many “minor” abusive actions that gradually increase in severity.
  • Quite often the event which will trigger the battering phase is initiated by the abuser who may make a demand which the victim cannot meet, and responds to her/his refusal or inability to act with violent behavior.
  • Abuse victims often accept the building rage in a partner as being legitimately directed towards her/him.
  • The victim internalizes the responsibility of keeping the situation from exploding. If she/he does their job well, the abusive partner will become or remain calm; if she/he fails, the victim believes it is their own fault.
  • A victim who has been battered over time knows that she/he can do nothing to stop the tension from building, but often denies this knowledge to help cope with the partner’s behavior.


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

The problems that are Unsolvable..

 There is no such a problem which cannot be solvable. As there will always a key for every lock, every problem will also have its solution. You will going to make your problem complicated where actually it will not like that. People usually compare thier problem as smaller one and bigger one but the truth is when you compare your smaller problem with the bigger one then you will always think you can easily solve that small er one Life is always like that if go on comparing your problems with other ones then it only increases instead of that try to solve it before another will going to arise.    People who thinks they got family ,relationship, anxiety, loneliness problems are all situation which comes in everyone's life. They compare themselves with others where they will find many uncompromising things. As they depend on others they will not able to lead happy life. So we has to live our own life in our own way. Be able to face whatever the things comes in li...
Post a Comment
Read more

Anonymous Archives :Victim Speaks Out about her problem

    I'm in love with a boy since 3 yrs.. just 1 sided..i have expresed my feelings 3 yrs back.. im so mad about him that i cant stop talking to him..i want to be atleast friends with him..I will easily excuse him for all the pain he have caused and talk to him like nothing happend..He too treats me well like a friend..sometimes like a very clse frnd and like he mean it..but ignores me whenhe is with his friends whom he likes more than me..or his sister even when im around..I dont want him to stick around only me..i just want him to atleast talk with me nicely now and then.. im being too desperate..but i cant help it.. i cant even resist not calling him for more than a day.. what do i have to do.. how do i forget him. I dont want him to love me back..I just want to get over him.. I clearly know that he is not the right one for me.. but I keep loving him.His mere presence makes me feel happy.But i cant live like this anymore.. i dont want to. I tried to stop talki...
1 comment
Read more

Challenges faced by youth during unemployment

   There has been an increase in young adults remaining in school and getting additional degrees simply because there aren't opportunities for employment. These youth are typically of a lower class, but it can represent a wide variety of individuals across races and classes. They call the phenomenon timepass because the youth are simply passing time in college while waiting for a paid employment opportunity. 1. Lack of Qualifications       Their may be lack of qualification attained by the job seekers which will lead them for not getting the job they want. Certain requirements are important for certain post where absence of such qualifications will results in unemployment. 2.Lack of Experiance      Reputed companies will always preffer for the experianced candidates which effect on the newly graduated and freshers from intering to the company. Experianced candidates which are seeking the job are also has to work on the same field of work ...
Post a Comment
Read more