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Self Harm...! Whether it will be useful...?

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Self Harm...! Whether it will be useful...?

 Many people are having in their mind that their problem will be solved or they'll get satisfied by making cuts in their body. They think that their physical pain will help them to forget their mental pain. Is it real ? Whether everyone having depression and mental illness should do this to get relief from their problems...?
    The answer is NO. By self harming yourself you're not going to any relief from your problems whether the problem may be physical or mental. Instead you're increasing your pain by harming yourself.
    The people who think self harm will help them to forget or gives relief for their problems are just cheating themselves by trying it. It not only increases the pain but also makes them weak both physically and mentally so that they are unable to solve their problem or even they can't think what they has to do for overcoming from that.The people who are trying this are not only getting the wrong choice but also making others to try it so they can also feel in the same way whether directly or indirectly.
    Once the person is going to make self harm then they'll always think that this is the only way left for them to treat their every problem and they keep on trying it whenever they felt they are having any trouble. They'll be addicted to this like other addictions people usually make so that they feel comfortable by trying this.
   Self harm not only indicates cutting themselves but it includes hitting, punishing, poisoning, burning and punching themselves. These issues can lead to a build-up of intense feelings of anger, guilt, hopelessness and self-hatred. The person may not know who to turn to for help and self-harming may become a way to release these pent-up feelings. 
  When the self harm is increases then it will even result by committing suicides. So people should be aware of what they are doing with themselves. The things will get worse when they try to solve it in wrong ways. Any problem cannot be solved by hurting yourself, it can only be solved by proper analysing of the problem. When you're not aware os any solution then talk with others about your problem and try to take the proper solution for it and if you think its difficult then take advices from counsellors. 
  

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