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10 early signs you're part of an emotionally abusive relationship



  • 1.Your partner will make you doubt yourself.
  • 2.Abusers will throw you crumbs.
  • 3.Emotional abusers giveth then taketh away.
  • 4.Abusers make you feel as if you’re walking on eggshells.
  • 5.Your partner makes you feel guilty about wanting to see your friends and family, or going anywhere on your own.
  • 6.Your partner makes you feel like you aren’t good enough for him or her; your partner says he or she coulddo better, and you should be thankful to be in the relationship.
  • 7.Your partner insists on always being right and doing things his or her way, because you are always wrong.
  • 8.This is not jealousy driven by care, but jealousy driven by control. An emotional abuser will make you feel guilty or evil or shameful for simple, innocent interactions with others.
  • 9.Along the same lines, they will try to control your spending as well as your social ties. This is how an abuser reduces an adult to the level of a child, cutting off their autonomy, begging for money for the simplest things.
  • 10.If you feel as if they are putting you in this second category, it’s up to you to decide if that’s really how you want to continue to live your life.

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