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Loneliness..? Then you're far away from Happiness..



   In affluent modern societies loneliness has become more difficult than satisfying hunger, thirst or the need to see the doctor. For those who are not surrounded by people who care for them, loneliness can persist.
 People will experiance loneliness beacuse they are in the mindset of being alone that nobody will be there for them to talk, to take care , to share , to play or to understan them completely.
  Loneliness may be mistaken as a depressive symptom, or perhaps it is assumed that loneliness will go away once depressive symptoms are addressed. One who is suffering from loneliness are willing to share everything but they have fear of facing someone directly.
  In modern days adults will easily going to believe someone thourgh social media's instead of the others who are near by them. It become necessary for most of all the adults to adopt themselves with electronic machines such as Computers, Mobiles and Tabs but they don't wanted to mingle with the people. By interacting the things which doesn't have any feelings, people are also become like that only which lead them to feel alone.
   While the opportunities which  provides a platform for social interaction, relieving the social pain is not so straightforward. Lonely people can have misgivings about social situatios and as a result show rejecting behaviours. These can be misconstrued as unfriendliness, and people around the lonely person respond accordingly. This is how loneliness can become a persistent cycle.
   Indeed, even individuals who have been diagnosed with serious mental illness have reported that people who felt extreme loneliness are supposed to get depressed and lead them to do negative things.
  It is more like to be happen with the people away from home because of studies or work. Then they not able to communicate with anyone or when they feel strange around them. In certain times they are forced to get out of the family which makes them to feel alone in this world.

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